Monday, December 22, 2025

Our Lady of Guadalupe 2025

 


On April 24, 2007 Mexico City legalized abortion for the first 12 weeks of pregnancy.  That same day, as Catholics Gathered in the Basilica of Our Lady of Guadalupe in Mexico City, the Tilma of Juan Diego, started to glow with an image of a fetus in Mary’s womb.

 

Our Lady of Guadalupe is the Patroness of the Pro-Life movement because in 1531, it was the first Church-approved Marian Apparition where our Blessed Mother appeared pregnant (the black band around her waist signified pregnancy in the culture at the time.

 

Approximately 70 MILLION children have been aborted in the United States.  And relatedly, it is estimated that 100 MILLION more children have died through the use of the contraceptive pill, which has as one of its mechanisms reducing a child’s chance of implanting on the mother’s uteran lining.

Even the United States Supreme Court has recognized the link between abortion and contraception when, in 1992 in “Planned Parenthood v. Casey”: "in some critical respects abortion is of the same character as the decision to use contraception . . . .  for two decades of economic and social developments, people have organized intimate relationships and made choices that define their views of themselves and their places in society, in reliance on the availability of abortion in the event that contraception should fail."

 

So as Catholics we are leading the charge in a lot of ways against abortion and helping women choose life, but we are not doing nearly as well supporting families who are not using contraception, as no Catholic marriage should be.  I was talking to one of my sisters at Thanksgiving and she said an elderly lady sat down next to her in her pew right before Mass started, and began grilling my sister about how her and her husband could possibly their 4th child, my sister was grilled on their grocery bills, electricity bills, and lots of other total boundary violations, but the main point is that we, as Catholics, need to be SUPPORTING families who are having children, not doing the horribly sinful things of DISCOURAGING families from having more children.

 

So what are we doing, as a parish, to support families who are having children?  Let’s build and even better and more flourishing culture of life at this parish, helping support families with children, and never discourage a family.  I will end with this: St. Mother Teresa of Calcutta said this: “Saying there are too many children is like saying there are too many flowers”.  Amen!

Saturday, December 20, 2025

The Funeral Homily for Maia Amador

On November 2nd this past Sunday, at my Masses I preached about this list of names right here on this worn piece of loose-leaf paper.  This past Sunday, there were 146 names on this piece of paper, and I preached about how, every night, I pray for all of these 146 people who are deceased, but then I also ask all of them to pray for me.  Now there are 147 people on this list as I have added Maia Amador to this list.

 

And that is a very beautiful teaching of our Catholic Faith…we can pray for those who have died, but we believe that they can also pray for us.  In fact, on my drive up here this morning, I was praying and asking Maia to give me the words this morning to bring all who were going to be at this funeral a deep sense of peace and comfort.

 

Our first reading this morning was from the 2nd Chapter of the Book of Wisdom.  In the first chapter of Wisdom, it says “God did not make death, nor does He rejoice in the destruction of the living”.  One of the reasons that God allows anything bad to happen is that He has plans to bring something even better out of that tragedy.  I can only speak for myself, but I know that I have become a better Catholic in watching the Amador family, and all who are here this morning helping each other and Maia carry her cross.  I know that I have grown even closer to Jesus in just watching this all play out from a distance.

 

In our 2nd reading today from St. Paul’s 2nd letter to Timothy we heard Saint Paul say “the time of my departure is at hand.  I have competed well; I have finished the race; I have kept the faith.  From now on the crown of righteousness awaits me, which the Lord, the just judge, will award to me on that day.”  This was written right before Paul’s death, early in on Paul’s career though, he wrote in his First Letter to the Corinthians, and I am paraphrasing here, “I am not aware of anything that would keep me out of Heaven, but I don’t presume to say that I am going to Heaven”.  (1 Cor. 4:3-4)

 

So what changed?  It is clear that as St. Paul approached his death, he was given a clear message from Jesus that he would in fact be entering Heaven.  And to hear the stories of a lot of you all who are here this morning, it is pretty clear that Maia had some sort of similar message from Jesus near the end of her life.

 

So where does that leave all of us?  In our Gospel this morning, Jesus says to each of us “Come to me, all you who labor and are burdened, and I will give you rest.”  (Matthew 11:28) At a previous assignment, I have the standard 3 foot tall sidewalk signs that you see out in front of most coffee shops with this quote from Jesus “come to me, all you who labor and are burdened, and I will give you rest” and then the sign invited everyone to come in.  And over the years, I heard from a lot of non-Catholics that they appreciated the invitation because they didn’t think they were allowed in.  They all also reported experiencing a great peace in our Church; we who are here this morning know why that is; we know that Jesus dwells in every Tabernacle in every Catholic Church in the world.  So anytime we are particularly struck with sadness or grief at Maia’s death, let us come to the Catholic Church or an adoration Chapel and give our burdens over to the Lord, and we will experience a great sense of peace and rest because Christ is always faithful and keeps every one of His promises!

 

May Maia’s soul, and the souls of the faithful departed, through the Mercy of God, rest in peace.  Amen.


December 23rd - O Emmanuel




About 20 years ago, I did a blog post for each of the “O Antiphons”.  In going back through them, I realized I never did the last one, “O Emmanuel” so I decided to do it today.

First, here are all of the other “O Antiphon” posts from around 20 years ago:







These "O Antiphons" are ancient pieces of chant sung on the days from December 17th through December 23rd.  Each day a different Old Testament title for the messiah is beseeched to come.  As the world cried out in longing for the Messiah before Christ, so we still cry out for his return.

Today's O Antiphon is sung to "Emmanuel"

The Latin is "O Emmanuel, Rex et legifer noster, exspectatio gentium, et Salvator earum: veni ad salvandum nos Domine Deus noster."

The English "O Emmanuel, our King and Lawgiver, the Expected of the Nations and their Saviour, come to save us, O Lord our God."

"Emmanuel" is Hebrew for "God is with us"

The word shows up in Isaiah 7:14 "Therefore the Lord himself will give you a sign; the young woman, pregnant and about to bear a son, shall name him Emmanuel."

In Isaiah, the larger context is that prophet Isaiah is commanded by God, "Go out to meet Ahaz...and say to him: "Take care you remain calm and do not fear"  Ahaz is in fear because what appears to be 2 mighty nations are preparing to conquer Ahaz's kingdom.

The story then continues: "Ask for a sign from the LORD, your God...But Ahaz answered, “I will not ask! I will not tempt the LORD!”  Then he said: "Listen, house of David! Is it not enough that you weary human beings? Must you also weary my God?  



And then Isaiah says the part that makes up our O Antiphon for today: "Therefore the Lord himself will give you a sign; the young woman, pregnant and about to bear a son, shall name him Emmanuel."

Ahaz, unfortunately, does not take Isaiah's counsel and is defeated.

But Isaiah's words also find its fulfillment in Jesus Christ.  

This "O Antiphon" is the most famous of all of them, as it has been turned into an english hymn "O Come O Come Emmanuel" sung in a lot of Catholic Churches throughout the entire season of Advent.

Friday, August 15, 2025

Homily Text - Assumption 2025

 

The Assumption of Mary

Many non-Catholic Christian ask where the Assumption of Mary into Heaven is in the Bible?  It is not

First of all, it doesn’t say in the Bible that everything is in the "Bible Alone" (sola Scriptura).

For example, it doesn’t say in the Bible how the 3 Persons of the Trinity work together.

The early Church spent the first 300 years figuring out how the Trinity worked.  Mqny non-Catholic "diagrams" (see an example below) say that around the year 300, when Constantine had his conversion to the Catholic Faith, that is when the "Catholic Church went off the rails".




 – so precisely when non-Catholic diagrams say the Catholic Church was lost when Constantine made Catholicism the official religion of Rome, that was actually the precise time where the Church was being the Catholic Church; there was a MAJOR break in the Church, and newly converted Constantine basically convoked the Council of Nicaea to settle the dispute - and it was at that Council where the priest Arius was given the label of a heretic in order to help him understand how serious was his theological error.

Also, with regards to those who say "By the Bible Alone", Saint Paul says in his second letter to the Thessalonians “brothers, stand firm and hold fast to the traditions that you were taught, either by an oral statement or by a letter of ours”  The "letters of ours" are Paul's letters in the Sacred Scriptures, and the oral statements are what the Catholic Church has always referred to as "Sacred Tradition".

 

But what does "Sacred Tradition" say about Mary being assumed body and soul into Heaven?

 

In the 600’s Saint John Damascene: “It was fitting that Mary, the spouse, whom the Father had taken to himself, should live in the divine mansions.”

 

also in the 600’s, St. Modestus of Jerusalem said: “Mary has received an eternal incorruptibility of the body together with Him who has raised Her up from the tomb and has taken Her up to Himself in a way known only to Him."

 

In the 700’s Saint Germanus said “Your virginal body is all holy and entirely the dwelling place of God, so that it is henceforth completely exempt from dissolution into dust. Though still human, it is changed into the heavenly life of incorruptibility”

 

In the 1200’s Saint Anthony of Padua, when,  while explaining the prophet Isaiah’s words: "I will glorify the place of my feet," said "you have here a clear statement that the Blessed Virgin has been assumed in her body, where was the place of the Lord's feet.”

 

Also in the 1200’s Saint Albert the Great said: “"From these proofs and authorities and from many others, it is manifest that the most blessed Mother of God has been assumed above the choirs of angels.”

 

Also in the 1200’s Saint Bonaventure said: “Mary’s blessedness would not have been complete unless she were there [in Heaven] as a person. The soul is not a person, but the soul, joined to the body, is a person. It is manifest that she is there in soul and in body. Otherwise she would not possess her complete beatitude.”

 

In the 1400’s Saint Bernadine of Siena said “Mary should be only where Christ is."

In the 1500’s Saint Peter Canitius said “"The teaching of Mary’s Assumption into Heaven has already been accepted for some centuries, it has been held as certain in the minds of the pious people, and it has been taught to the entire Church in such a way that those who deny that Mary's body has been assumed into heaven are not to be listened to patiently but are everywhere to be denounced as over-contentious or rash men, and as imbued with a spirit that is heretical rather than Catholic."

 

In the 1600’s Saint Robert Bellarmine said “Who, I ask, could believe that the ark of holiness, the dwelling place of the Word of God, the temple of the Holy Spirit, could be reduced to ruin? My soul is filled with horror at the thought that this virginal flesh which had begotten God, could have been turned into ashes or given over to be food for worms."

 

Also in the 1600’s Saint Francis de Sales said “"What son would not bring his mother back to life and would not bring her into paradise after her death if he could?"

 

In the 1700’s Saint Alphonsus Liguori said “Jesus did not wish to have the body of Mary corrupted after death, since it would have redounded to his own dishonor to have her virginal flesh, from which he himself had assumed flesh, reduced to dust."

 

Mary being assumed into Heaven isn’t in the Bible.  But it has been consistently taught in the “Sacred Tradition” of the Catholic Church.

 

As Catholics, we work together on a lot of really good projects together helping the poor and so forth, but it is important to know that Jesus says in John 17 when He prays “That they may be one, even as we are one” that means that Christ’s followers should reflect the same unity as the Trinity, and to the extent that all of us who profess to be followers of Christ are not united, it will signal to non-Christians that the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit are not one either.  

 

Putting myself in the position of a non-Christian for a moment, it would seem ludicrous to me to become a Christian seeing different denominations believing directly contradictory things.  

 

Finally, Marian devotion is not an optional thing a Christian can choose to do or not do.  The Bible DOES say, over and over and over again in the New Testament that Baptism makes us an adopted son or daughter of God the Father, and an adopted Brother or Sister of Jesus.  Mary is the Mother of Jesus and thus our adoptive Mother, and one of the commandments is to honor your Mother.  Mary is our adopted Mother, so to fail to honor her is to break one of the 10 Commandments!

 

We pray for all those who do not yet honor Mary our Mother, that they will soon realize the error, and begin honoring Mary moving forward.

 


Thursday, July 31, 2025

Gordon Hayward - Butler Star and NBA Star converts to Catholicism!

 


Here is Gordon Hayward's near miss in the National Championship game that would have caused Indianapolis to burn down!


Monday, July 7, 2025

Saint Paul's Greatest Failure - Homily for the 14th Sunday in Ordinary Time, 2025

 

Saint Paul’s Greatest Failure as a Preacher


I would like to preach about Saint Paul’s greatest failure as a preacher, how he learned from it, and what the implications are for us today.

About halfway through the Acts of the Apostles, it talks about how Saint Paul went to Athens.  And he is walking around Athens getting ready for his opportunity to address the philosophers in Athens.  Saint Paul sees all these different altars around town just off to the side of the roads.  There was an altar to Zeus, and candles and incense being lit at the altar by devotees of Zeus.  Maybe several hundred yards down the road, there was an altar to Aphrodite, with a statue of Aphrodite on it, and candles and incense being burned to honor her.

Saint Paul, at some point during his walk around Athens comes across an altar, as the inscription says, to “an unknown god” with no statue on it. 

Later that day, then, when Saint Paul gets his chance to speak to the people of Athens, he shares the experience of his walk through town and says “As I walked through your town, I came across an altar to an unknown god.  That is the god that I serve.”  And the people of Athens are completely unimpressed and say “we should like to hear more about this from you some other time” which means exactly what it does 2,000 years later – “we could care less.”

 

The Acts of the Apostles says after this, Saint Paul went to Corinth.

 

And when we read Saint Paul’s first letter to the Corinthians, it is clear, right from the very start, that he has learned two HIGHLY valuable lessons from his Athens failure.  In Chapter 1 Saint Paul writes “Jews demand signs and Greeks look for wisdom, but we proclaim Christ crucified.”

And in Chapter 2 Saint Paul says “When I came to you, brothers, proclaiming the mystery of God, I did not come with sublimity of words or of wisdom.  For I resolved to know nothing while I was with you except Jesus Christ, and him crucified

 

In Athens, Saint Paul did not mention the Name of Jesus, and he did not mention suffering.

 

In our Gospel today, when Jesus sends out the 72, they come back saying “Jesus, at the mention of your NAME, demons tremble.  In the Mass, and everywhere, when we hear the name of Jesus mentioned, we are to bow our heads.  If we hear someone take the name of Jesus in vain, we should charitably correct them, and ask them not to take the name of Jesus in vain.

 

So, getting to our 2nd reading today, Saint Paul says “may I never boast, except in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ”

 

The lesson, it seems to me, is clear.  When we are talking to people, we should be mentioning the name of Jesus, and we should be talking about the power of the Cross; the power of suffering and offering our suffering up, and how that helps others and ourselves.  We should be, as Saint Paul says elsewhere, “boasting in our weaknesses” (2 Corinthians 12:9)

 

Let us never fail to mention Jesus’ Name when trying to spread the Good News of the Gospel with Joy, and may others see in us a joy in the midst of the various sufferings, big and small, that we encounter each day.  As St. Paul learns, those are the 2 things that will attract other people to also follow Jesus Christ.

Friday, July 4, 2025

Mass for July 4th, 2025

The Catholic Church has a special Mass for the United States every July 4th.  I prayed the Mass this morning.  The Collect (opening prayer) was especially poignant:


 Father of all nations and ages,

 we recall the day when our country

 claimed its place among the family of nations;

 for what has been achieved we give you thanks,

 for the work that still remains we ask your help,

 and as you have called us from many peoples to be one nation,

 grant that, under your providence,

 our country may share your blessings

 with all the peoples of the earth.

 Through our lord Jesus Christ, your son,

 who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the holy spirit,

 one God, for ever and ever.


Friday, June 13, 2025

Pope Leo With Encouraging Words for Us Priests!

 ADDRESS OF THE HOLY FATHER TO THE CLERGY OF THE DIOCESE OF ROME 

Thursday, 12 June 2025

I want to ask for a big round of applause for all of you who are here, and for all the priests and deacons of Rome!

Dear Priests and Deacons who provide your service in the diocese of Rome, dear seminarians, I greet you all with affection and friendship!

I thank His Eminence the Cardinal Vicar, for the words of greeting and for his presentation, telling something of your presence in this city.

I wished to meet you to get to know you personally, and to begin walking with you. I thank you for your life given in the service of the Kingdom, for your daily labours, for your great generosity in the exercise of your ministry, for everything you live in silence and that is at times accompanied by suffering or misunderstanding. You carry out different services, but you are all precious in the eyes of God and in the fulfilment of his plan.

The diocese of Rome presides in charity and in communion, and can fulfil this mission thanks to each one of you, in the bond of grace with the Bishop and in the fruitful co-responsibility of all God’s people. Ours is a truly particular diocese, because many priests come from various parts of the world, especially in order to study; and this implies that pastoral care too – I am thinking above all of the parishes – is marked by this universality and the mutual acceptance it entails.

Starting precisely from this universal outlook that Rome offers, I would like to share cordially with you a few reflections.

The first note, that is particularly close to my heart, is that of unity and communion. In the so-called “priestly” prayer, as we know, Jesus asked the Father that his people may be one (cf. Jn 20-23). The Lord knows well that only by being joined to him and united among ourselves can we bear fruilt and give credible witness to the world. Presbyteral communion here in Rome is favoured by the fact that, by ancient tradition, it is it is customary to live together, in rectories as well as in colleges or other residences. The presbyter is called to be the man of communion, because he is the first to live it, and continually nurtures it. We know that this communion today is hindered by a cultural climate that favours isolation or self-absorption. None of us is exempt from these pitfalls that threaten the solidity of our spiritual life and the strength of our ministry.

But we must be vigilant because, in addition to the cultural context, communion and fraternity among us also encounter some obstacles that are, so to speak, “internal”, which relate to the ecclesial life of the diocese, interpersonal relationships, and also what resides in the heart, especially that feeling of weariness that arises because we have experienced particular hardships, because we do not feel we are understood and heard, or for other reasons. I would like to help you, to walk with you, so that each person may regain serenity in his own ministry; but it is precisely for this reason that I ask you for zeal in priestly fraternity, which has its roots in a solid spiritual life, in the encounter with the Lord and in listening to his Word. Nourished by this lymph, we are able to have relationships of friendship, outdoing one another in respect (cf. Rm 12:10); we feel the need for others in order to grow and to foster the same ecclesial drive.

Communion should also be translated into commitment in this diocese: with diverse charisms, with different paths of formation and even with different services, but the effort to sustain it must be one. I ask all of you to pay attention to the pastoral journey of this Chruch which is local but, because of who leads it, is also universal. Walking together is always a guarantee of fidelity to the Gospel; together and in harmony, striving to enrich the Church with one’s own charism but having at heart the single body of which Christ is the Head.

The second note I want to give you is that of exemplarity. On the occasion of the priestly ordinations on 31 May last, in the homily I recalled the importance of the transparency of life, on the basis of the words of Saint Paul who said to the elders of Ephesus: “You yourselves know how I lived among you” (Acts 20:18). I ask you, with the heart of a father and of a pastor, let us all undertake to be credible and exemplary priests! We are aware of the limits of our nature and the Lord knows us in depth; but we have received an extraordinary grace; we have been entrusted with a precious treasure of which we are the ministers, the servants. And fidelity is required of the servant. None of us is exempt from the suggestions of the world, and the city, with its thousands of offerings, could even draw us away from the desire for a holy life, inducing a levelling down in which the profound values of being a priest are lost. Let yourselves be drawn once again by the call of the Master, to feel and live the love of the first hour, that which drove you to make important choices and courageous sacrifices. If together we try to be exemplary in a humble life, then we will be able to express the renewing force of the Gospel for every man and for every woman.

A final note I wish to give you you is that of looking at the challenges of our time from a prophetic perspective. We are concerned and saddened by everything that happens every day in the world: we are hurt by the violence that generates death, we are challenged by inequalities, poverty, many forms of social marginalization, the widespread suffering that assumes the features of an unease that no longer spares anyone. And these are not distant realities, far from us, but rather they affect even our city of Rome, marked by multiple forms of poverty and grave emergencies such as the issue of housing. A city in which, as Pope Francis remarked, the “great beauty” and charm of art must also be matched by “simple decorum and the normal functioning of places and situations in ordinary, everyday life. Because a city that is more liveable for its citizens is also more welcoming to everyone” (Homily for Vespers with Te Deum, 31 December 2023).

The Lord wanted us in this time filled with challenges that, at times, seem to exceed our strength. We are called to embrace these challenges, to interpret them evangelically, to experience them as opportunities to bear witness. Let us not flee from them! Pastoral commitment, like that of study, become for us a school to learn how to build the Kingdom of God in today's complex and challenging history. In recent times we have had the example of holy priests who have been able to combine a passion for history with the proclamation of the Gospel, such as Don Primo Mazzolari and Don Lorenzo Milani, prophets of peace and justice. And here in Rome we have had Don Luigi Di Liegro who, faced with so much poverty, devoted his life to seeking ways of justice and human advancement. Let us draw on the strength of these examples to continue sowing seeds of holiness in our city.

Dear friends, I assure you of my closeness, my affection and my readiness to walk with you. Let us entrust our priestly life to the Lord, and let us ask him to be able to grow in unity, exemplarity and in prophetic commitment to serve our time. May we be accompanied by the heartfelt appeal of Saint Augustine, who said: “Love this Church, be ye in this holy Church, be ye this Church; love the Good Shepherd, the Spouse so fair, who deceiveth no one, who desireth no one to perish. Pray too for the scattered sheep; that they too may come, that they too may acknowledge Him, that they too may love Him; that there may be One Flock and One Shepherd” (Sermon 138, 10). Thank you.

Thursday, June 12, 2025

My Ordination

16th Ordination Anniversary Homily

 

Righteous Anger?

 

“Whoever is angry with his brother will be liable to judgment” (Matthew 5:22)

 

Is anger sinful?  There is a Church Father who said: “he who, on just cause, is not angry, is in sin; for an unreasonable patience invites the good as well as the bad to do evil.”

 

Of course the most famous incident in Jesus’ life of justified anger is when he flipped over the tables in the Temple.

 

In 2018, I preached a righteously angry homily against Cardinal Theodore McCarrick.  If I had not preached that homily, then the hundreds of victims who I have been able to help in some small way would have not been helped.

 

Does anyone this morning here like the fact that children and vulnerable adults are sex-trafficked?  The pornography “industry” is the worst sex trafficker of children and vulnerable adults IN THE WORLD!  And they get money every time anyone clicks on an image or video.  You SHOULD allow your righteous anger to compel you to never click on a video or image of pornography moving forward.

 

Priests and religious brothers and sisters pray night prayer every night, and last night we had the reading that we have every Wednesday: “If you are angry, let it be without sin” (Ephesians 4:26) that means, of course, as we have been saying, that there ARE things that we should be angry about, and that “anger” is not sinful but rather there are situations where, if we are NOT angry, that is sinful.

 

Far from being the opposite of “love” there are many situations where “love” DEMANDS being angry.  What are we righteously angry about, and what are we doing this morning to be part of the solution to those situations?

Tuesday, June 10, 2025

Some of Paul's Letters are confusing

In our first reading this morning, St. Paul writes to the Corinthians: "For the Son of God, Jesus Christ...was not “yes” and “no,” but “yes” has been in him.

This struck me as confusing, eventhough I have read it hundreds of times.


Jesus Christ clearly says in the Gospels "no" to lots of different sins; so what does St. Paul mean that there was not “yes” and “no,” but “yes” has been in him"?


In praying over today's first reading for the last 24 hours or so, I am reminded of what St. Peter said at the end of his 2nd letter: 

"Our beloved brother Paul, also wrote to you, speaking of these things as he does in all his letters. In them there are some things hard to understand that the ignorant and unstable distort to their own destruction, just as they do the other scriptures" (2 Peter 3:15-16).


In reading various commentaries, I found little help from them.  But I would like to recommend the USCCB website.  When you go to the "Daily Reading" link, it takes you to a wonderful page where all the readings for the day are on one page.  


The only downside is that the page with the readings does not have any footnotes.  But if you click on "2 Corinthians 1:18-22" at the top right of the page, it takes you to that chapter of the Bible on the USCCB website with the footnotes.


You can click HERE to go to 2 Corinthians 1:18-22.


And once you are there, there is a star right after "faithful" and when you click on it, the footnote says this: 

"Christ, Paul, and the Corinthians all participate in analogous ways in the constancy of God. A number of the terms here, which appear related only conceptually in Greek or English, would be variations of the same root, ’mn, in a Semitic language, and thus naturally associated in a Semitic mind, such as Paul’s. These include the words "yes", "faithful", "Amen", "gives us security", "faith", and "stand firm". 


The point of this homily is this: sometimes when you read the daily readings for Mass, they do not, on your first reading of them, make sense.  But the Church says that it ALWAYS bears fruit in our lives when we dive deeper on the questions that rise in our hearts on our first reading of any passage in the Bible.

Thursday, April 17, 2025

Spy Wednesday 2025

 

Today we remember Spy Wednesday, the day that Judas betrayed Jesus and handed Jesus over to the Jewish leaders.

Judas’s betrayal on a Wednesday is why the early Church (and many still today) fast almost every Wednesday throughout the year.

There is a really problematic and wrong understanding of why Judas betrayed Jesus, and I would like to preach about why that wrong understanding has so many harmful implications.

The general wrong position is “Judas HAD to betray Jesus?”  so God had Judas do something evil so that something even better could come out of Judas’s betrayal…. And so Judas may have just been performing a needed role for God.

 

But the Gospels discredit all this.  Jesus says in today’s Gospel “woe to that man by whom the Son of Man is betrayed.  It would be better for that man if he had never been born.”

 

So what is the right way to understand these events? 

First of all, we need to know that God NEVER forces nor commands someone to do wrong.  God is incapable of having anything to do with evil or sin. 

And Here’s the problem with thinking God CAN have someone do a wrong act – if God can have people do a wrong act for good outcomes, then WE can start doing wrong acts for “Good outcomes that we think will happen”

God ALLOWS evil, but only ever because God desires to bring something GREATER out of the allowed evil.

LITERALLY ALL HELL BREAKS LOOSE THE MOMENT A PERCEIVED FUTURE CONSEQUENCE CAN BE USED TO JUSTIFY AN ACTION

And so it has become fashionable to say such things, even in the Church today, that apparently wrong acts might not actually BE wrong, as the circumstances or intentions of an act might make a wrong act actually good.  

But the Chruch says that there are 3 things that make any human act according to the Catechism paragraph 1750

1)      Act itself

2)     Circumstances surrounding the act

3)     Intentions of the person doing the act

 

And so if the act itself is wrong, no circumstances nor our intentions can make that act a good act

Catechism paragraph 1753 provides us with an example

It says “A good intention, for example, that of helping one's neighbor, does not make behavior that is intrinsically disordered, such as lying and calumny, good or just. The end does not justify the means.

 

The Catechism in paragraph 1755 says there are acts which, in and of themselves, independently of circumstances and intentions, are always gravely wrong; such as blasphemy and perjury, murder and adultery.

One may not do evil so that good may result from it.

 

That is a distinctly Catholic phrase that the Catechism repeats over and over again, the perceived ends, which we can never actually know, never justify the means to get to those ends

Jesus’ words about Judas need to be with us always – Woe to that man by whom the son of man is betrayed.  It would be better for that man if he had never been born.

So what, then, is the best way for each of us to proceed?  First of all we need to pray for the Lord to always be purifying our intentions. 

Secondly, there is SO MUCH SUFFERING in our world.  I think we can all look around and find one person who is carrying a cross of suffering, and our offering to help that person carry their cross is probably a big part of what God is hoping to bring out of whatever evil was done to that person.

 

My Mission Talks from New Hampshire

 

Wednesday, April 16, 2025

Kevin Wells article about me

 I am super grateful to author Kevin Wells for writing an amazing article about my journey that you can read by clicking HERE

Sunday, April 13, 2025

Holy Week Hype Video!



Created with the "New Evangelization Ninjas" at Annunciation several years ago!

Wednesday, March 19, 2025

Homily on Pornography and "Covenant Eyes"

Pornography and the temptations of Jesus 


The Devil tempts Jesus in the desert, and we first of all need to understand that Jesus was in fact TEMPTED.

It can be a temptation for us to think of Jesus as a robot, or that Jesus is God pretending to be a human being, but he is a human being like us.  In the book of Hebrews, we find in chapter 4 that Christ was tempted in every way we are, but did not sin.

 

And so I would like to briefly preach about one of the greatest temptations to sin that our world has ever known.  And that is the temptation to view explicit material, particularly on our phones and computers.

 

When I was 7, despite being homeschooled, I was exposed to explicit material at a friend’s house when my friend found his dad’s magazines.  It is not a matter of IF your child or teen will be exposed to explicit material, but WHEN.

 

“The use of pornography by anyone in the home deprives the home of its role as a safe haven and has negative effects throughout the family’s life and across generations”

“Create in me a clean heart” a pastoral response to Pornography” by the USCCB (2015)

Pope Francis also questioned social media for the first time in 2015…why 2015 for both the USCCB and Pope Francis…because 2015 was the first time the majority of U.S. teens had a smart phone.

A recent study found that 82% of teens and 72% of preteens sleep with their phone in the bedroom

            This places kids at greater risk to exposure to explicit content, encourages isolation, and makes it more difficult to have accountability

I also counsel every person who struggles with viewing explicit material that the pornography industry is the greatest human trafficker of children and vulnerable adults in the world so even if the video or image you click on does not involve a child the pornography industry gets money from that view and so any time you view any explicit material you are helping to fund human trafficking.  NO one here wants to see their child or a niece or nephew or friend or relative human trafficked. 

The 4 parishes of Dearborn County have been asked by the Archdiocese to pilot a totally free program called “Covenant Eyes”.  It works!  My parents have used it for 20 years.

As you leave Mass today, there is an ebook on how to create a safe environment for your family

 

Jesus was tempted, and you and your family certainly face graves temptations and guaranteed exposure to explicit material.  Please take advantage of the resources we are offering as you leave Mass this morning!

 

Many of our homes have glass TV screens that we stare at, glass smart phone screens that we stare at, glass tablet screens that we stare at, and glass laptop screens that we stare at… but at the end of this Mass we have a few minutes to stare at the only glass screen that will bring us any lasting peace.  At the end of this Mass we will have a few minutes to stare at the glass screen of a monstrance with Jesus’ Real Presence right behind it.  Let us gaze on Him, and allow Him to heal all our ills and grant us His peace!

Thursday, February 27, 2025

Does Jesus Contradict Himself?

 

What does Jesus mean by “Whoever is not against us is for us”?

 

Jesus says in Mark 9: 39-40: “There is no one who performs a mighty deed in my name who can at the same time speak ill of me.  For whoever is not against us is for us." 

But we have to weigh this quote from Jesus with this other quotation of His that we find in Luke’s Gospel (11:23) “Whoever is not with me is against me, and whoever does not gather with me scatters.

 

Saint Augustine actually demonstrates how both of these statements of Jesus are in harmony. 

“A person who worked miracles in the name of Christ, and yet did not join himself to the body of his disciples, [the Catholic Church], in so far as this person worked miracles in the name of Christ, that person is with them.  But the Disciples should have tried to persuade this person of the unity of the Church”

“The Catholic Church does disprove the sacraments that heretics share in common with the Catholic Church, but the Catholic Church blames them for their division and opinions of theirs, for in this they are against us.”

 

So what St. Augustine was teaching 1700 years ago is STILL what the Catholic Church teaches.  How?  We consider the Orthodox, who are not in full Communion with us, the Catholic Church says the Orthodox still have a valid priesthood and thus also a valid Eucharist.  We recognize their baptisms and confirmations as well.

 

The non-Catholic Christians (“protestants”), if they baptize “In the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit”, the Catholic Church recognizes their baptisms as valid.  We consider their weddings to be a Sacramental marriage.  They have most of the Bible…

 

But again, as St. Augustine says, we have to do EVERYTHING we can to help non-Catholics become Catholic.