Saturday, December 20, 2025

The Funeral Homily for Maia Amador

On November 2nd this past Sunday, at my Masses I preached about this list of names right here on this worn piece of loose-leaf paper.  This past Sunday, there were 146 names on this piece of paper, and I preached about how, every night, I pray for all of these 146 people who are deceased, but then I also ask all of them to pray for me.  Now there are 147 people on this list as I have added Maia Amador to this list.

 

And that is a very beautiful teaching of our Catholic Faith…we can pray for those who have died, but we believe that they can also pray for us.  In fact, on my drive up here this morning, I was praying and asking Maia to give me the words this morning to bring all who were going to be at this funeral a deep sense of peace and comfort.

 

Our first reading this morning was from the 2nd Chapter of the Book of Wisdom.  In the first chapter of Wisdom, it says “God did not make death, nor does He rejoice in the destruction of the living”.  One of the reasons that God allows anything bad to happen is that He has plans to bring something even better out of that tragedy.  I can only speak for myself, but I know that I have become a better Catholic in watching the Amador family, and all who are here this morning helping each other and Maia carry her cross.  I know that I have grown even closer to Jesus in just watching this all play out from a distance.

 

In our 2nd reading today from St. Paul’s 2nd letter to Timothy we heard Saint Paul say “the time of my departure is at hand.  I have competed well; I have finished the race; I have kept the faith.  From now on the crown of righteousness awaits me, which the Lord, the just judge, will award to me on that day.”  This was written right before Paul’s death, early in on Paul’s career though, he wrote in his First Letter to the Corinthians, and I am paraphrasing here, “I am not aware of anything that would keep me out of Heaven, but I don’t presume to say that I am going to Heaven”.  (1 Cor. 4:3-4)

 

So what changed?  It is clear that as St. Paul approached his death, he was given a clear message from Jesus that he would in fact be entering Heaven.  And to hear the stories of a lot of you all who are here this morning, it is pretty clear that Maia had some sort of similar message from Jesus near the end of her life.

 

So where does that leave all of us?  In our Gospel this morning, Jesus says to each of us “Come to me, all you who labor and are burdened, and I will give you rest.”  (Matthew 11:28) At a previous assignment, I have the standard 3 foot tall sidewalk signs that you see out in front of most coffee shops with this quote from Jesus “come to me, all you who labor and are burdened, and I will give you rest” and then the sign invited everyone to come in.  And over the years, I heard from a lot of non-Catholics that they appreciated the invitation because they didn’t think they were allowed in.  They all also reported experiencing a great peace in our Church; we who are here this morning know why that is; we know that Jesus dwells in every Tabernacle in every Catholic Church in the world.  So anytime we are particularly struck with sadness or grief at Maia’s death, let us come to the Catholic Church or an adoration Chapel and give our burdens over to the Lord, and we will experience a great sense of peace and rest because Christ is always faithful and keeps every one of His promises!

 

May Maia’s soul, and the souls of the faithful departed, through the Mercy of God, rest in peace.  Amen.


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