A theme that
we hear about in both our first reading and in our Gospel today is
humility. There are at least a thousand
different true directions that a homily on humility could take, so I would just
like to focus on one aspect of humility.
Humility can be understood as not being afraid of being
humiliated.
I was
listening to Catholic Radio this week, and a person brought up that particular
aspect of humility as not being afraid of being humiliated.
And that
struck me as so true. So often, I
am afraid of being humiliated, and while, since becoming a priest, I
have not lied to avoid being humiliated, I certainly have in some instances not
been as forthcoming as I could have been in order to avoid being humiliated.
And so I
think one question for all of us, including myself, for an examination of
conscience is “do I avoid being humiliated?”
And lest
this homily sound like some random reflection on humility, I think it is
important to call to mind that Jesus EMBRACED being humiliated. He is 100 percent human like us in every way,
and yet
He allowed
himself to be humiliated by the spitting and the punches of the soldiers whom
He created,
He allowed
himself to be humiliated by getting whipped with cords and crowned with thorns
He also
allowed himself to be humiliated by being stripped of all of his clothing in
front of his Mom and everyone else who saw His Crucifixion.
And Jesus’s
death on a cross was considered the ultimate humiliation for a faithful Jew
(which Jesus was) because Deuteronomy chapter 21 says a person who is put to
death on a tree is cursed
Humility is
the antidote to pride, and so often our fear of being humiliated is rooted in
our pride. May we never run from an
opportunity to embrace humiliation. May we never lie or tell only part of the
truth in order to avoid humiliation.
Saint
Augustine, who we always remember every August 28th in the Catholic
Church said “Let us follow Christ’s paths which He established, above all
the path of humility”
Avoiding
humiliation, whether in our marriage, our family, our parish, or in our larger
community, is a great temptation. But
let us not avoid humiliation but rather embrace those moments head on, because
Jesus first embraced all of His humiliation.